MARCH 2023 LIFE’s MILESTONE MOMENTS ~ Rites of Passage
To gather, To welcome, To Celebrate
THESE TIMES OF CHANGE IN OUR LIFE that often don’t make sense or seem to NOT fit, yet can be shifted within our mind and our heart through ceremony.
TO RECOGNIZE.
TO HONOR.
TO SUPPORT and ACKNOWLEDGE.
To see through new awareness where you have come from, what you have learned, changed or become, and arrived at a new or different ‘level’ or destination and way of Being.
OR perhaps, a ‘jumping off’ place toward where you are going, to embark onto a new path, or cross a ‘threshold’ into something or somewhere new.
According to Wikipedia, a milestone is a marker of distance along roads, and installed to provide linear referencing points along the road.
This can be used to reassure travellers that the proper path is being followed, and to indicate either distance travelled or the remaining distance to a destination.
Milestone may also refer to where a person is on their life path or journey.
These are also referred to as RITES OF PASSAGE, and there are 3 phases.
In the first phase of separation, people withdraw from their current status and prepare to move from one place or status to another
The 2nd phase of transition, is the period between stages, during which one has left one place or state but has not yet entered or joined the next.
In the third phase the passage is consummated [by] the ritual subject."[ having completed the rite and assumed their "new" identity, often characterized by elaborate rituals and ceremonies.
For example, the cutting of the hair for a person who has just joined the army. He or she is "cutting away" the former self: the civilian.
Ash Wednesday reminds Christians as ashes are marked on their foreheads, that he journey of Lent is about being born again, about the path to a new life, about mortality and transformation, and preparing for Easter (as resurrection).
Rites individuals might normally encounter: pregnancy, childbirth, betrothal, marriage, funerals. Historically these life changes are filled with pomp and ceremony.